It’s that time of year again.
Yes, it’s V-day week, and if you’re like most of the dating population, you’re either dreading the commercial holiday or you’ve been planning it for weeks. It’s the time when guys buy their girls the cliché box of chocolates, a dozen red roses and maybe a romantic dinner out. But I thought, why not spice up your night for dessert? So I called a friend, Lady Meshell from Passion Parties, for a little advice. This woman is an expert — actually, she’s a SEXpert. With her suitcase overflowing with sex toys, lubricants, books, massage oils and lots of toys I didn’t know existed, Lady Meshell gave me the sexy, dirty lowdown on what’s hot at this time of year for couples.
Firstly, Lady Meshell has 10 tips for lovers:
1. Sex is good for you.
2. Soulmates are made, not born.
3. Even if you’re a “good girl,” you get to have great sex!
4. If you take responsibility for your pleasure, your pleasure will pay you back.
5. Being sexy is in how you feel, not how you look.
6. You need all five senses to make sex great.
7. For sex at night, foreplay starts in the morning.
8. Your most important sex organ is your brain.
9. Your most important sex toy is your tongue (and we’re talking about talking!).
10. If you want great sex, bring the right person to the bedroom.
She has a few products for couples, as well:
The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex
You’ve got the tools, now what to do with them? Lady Meshell says this top-selling book will educate couples on spicy sex tips and techniques that will elevate lovemaking to extraordinary new heights. Tasteful yet explicit, this book gives the “how-tos” for steamy foreplay, intercourse, various sex positions and sex toys. Finish off by reading and following the last chapter, then taking a weeklong sensual journey.
Lubricant, massage oil and intimacy gel
Make your sexy times sexier with massage oils and lubricants. There is no such thing as too wet, according to Lady Meshell, and these products are some of the top sellers. There are a variety of massage oils and lubricants out there, but there are also gels that make your sexy time even sexier by increasing arousal. Ignite your passions with these liquids and there surely will be more where that came from.
This sleek and slender vibrating wedge uses high-tech “strokes” of genius to get you off anywhere you go. With four functions, this smooth toy fits snugly under garments. The wireless controller allows you to share the toy, with your lover in control. Or, bring the sleek contraption to work to spice up your lunch breaks. This vibrator is USB powered, though the controller requires a 12-volt battery. Lady Meshell says this is another favourite of hers, as it puts the fun in someone else’s hands — but it doesn’t stop there.
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, your lover is out of town or you just want to have some cyber fun with a stranger, then the Bullet 2.0 is for you. This sleek vibrator is USB powered and hooks up to your computer so there is no need for batteries. Skype, MSN and Facebook will never be the same again, and digital delights make for satisfying nights!
We Vibe ll
Sex guru Sue Johanson says this is the “sex toy of the year,” and for good reason. The We Vibe can be worn internally while making love, or for solo play, and offers both external and internal stimulation. Its discreet and slick size makes it ideal for travel. Lady Meshell says this is “one toy every woman and couple should indulge in.” Two whisper-quiet vibrating pads simultaneously stimulate the clitoris and G-Spot, but still allow space for him to slide in. Ladies, the quietness of this toy allows you to use it almost anywhere. There are nine vibration modes, and orgasms have never come so easy! It’s as easy as, one, two, three….
Shop discreetly online at http://ladymeshell.yourpassionconsultant.com.